Mixed presence on Earth has resulted in no one on Earth being able to completely fulfill their Destiny Path. Everyone has been finding they can only do some of the things they want to do. Many have thought that compromise was necessary, but compromise is a judgement, usually in advance of the experience, that the entirety of the proposal is not appropriate or possible. The need for compromise results from denial. Compromise impedes the evolutionary process because no one compromising finds out if their own approach would work or not. Compromise is no more reasonable than denying parts of people in order to force them onto the same Destiny Path. People can come to agreement freely.

Your choice is a simple one. You can dance or not. Deciding not to dance will not remove you from the dance floor. The dance will continue on around you.

You can develop the same strength of character by moving flexibly with all the situations in your life. Stand tall and be rooted in the moment. Know your needs, but allow them to be met as life knows how. Do not insist that your needs be met in a certain way. If you do, you will offer unnecessary resistance.   The trunk of the tree snaps when it tries to stand against the wind. Move in the wind.  Your life is a dance. It is neither good nor bad. It is a movement, a continuum.

If you want to understand the concept of unconditional, look at the tree moving in the wind. That’s the best metaphor you’ll find. The tree has deep roots and wide branches. It’s fixed below, flexible above. It’s a symbol of strength and surrender.

Denials always involve overriding parts of the self which inevitably leads to overriding of others, either overtly or subtly.

The way to understand the difference between a judgement and the truth is this: The Will must feel the truth for you.

Expressing yourself freely is the way to call for the reality you want, and yet, desire has long been judged to be a sin. In fact desire is magnetic energy of the Will. Magnetic energy attracts, so it’s important that you give acceptance to your desire so that you can know what it is you’re attracting.

It has been thought to be that when you love someone, you have to put up with whatever they do that doesn’t please you. This has been called unconditional love. However, what about you and how this feels to you? When you feel you have to suppress parts of yourself in favor of someone else, this is conditional love that involves self-denial and self-sacrifice that hasn’t known how to fully love self and another at the same time.

Settlement needs to feel right to all parties involved; however, unless there is movement in the Will, there can be no real settlement. The guideline here is that no one has the right to force anything on another.

The more alignment you have within yourself, the more alignment you will attract as a partner and in your children. Wherever there is lack of alignment, you will attract the reflection of those denials. The more lack of acceptance in the parents, the more unacceptable and unaccepting their relationships with their children will be.